I got my first hater! I must be doing something right, I have arrived!! LOL, Woot Woot!!
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I received an out of the blue, nasty message this week from a woman I have known for years through different networking circles. She was angry that I was promoting a free event on Facebook, which she automatically got invited to because she is in one of my groups. She laid into me about how she messaged me a year ago about being referral partners and I didn’t respond, therefore I must be all ego, only in it for myself and not willing to support anyone else. Quite frankly, I have watched her burn many bridges over the years and am not willing to refer people to my community who are unpredictable and volatile and I knew replying would create drama, so I let it go. I have a responsibility to protect my peeps and only bring in partners I trust and who align with me and my community.
There’s going to be times when you have haters when you’re in business. When you play a bigger game, put yourself out there in a bigger way, you WILL have people that don’t like you. No matter what. No matter how many hundreds or thousands of people love you, there will always be one in the crowd.
A lot of times we fear putting ourselves out there because we fear what people will think or say about us.
“Your energy is too big, pull it back.”
“Who do you think you are? You’re too young, you don’t have enough life experience.”
“You’re too bubbly.”
“You’re too Pollyanna.”
“You’re too confident.”
“You aren’t confident enough.”
Blah, blah, blah….
Who cares??? The haters are not your peeps! Let them go, and quickly! Don’t try to convince them of your awesomeness, they will never see it, and it’s not worth your time and energy. Focus on the people who love and support you, who are amazing community members, friends and family.
I want to support as many people as possible in this lifetime, and there will be tons of people who love me, and a few that don’t, and I’m ok with that, because I know I’m making an impact in the world, with or without them.
I truly want to see people succeed and live their best life. And if someone sees my playing big and inviting people to come play with me in my community as a bad thing, that’s not my problem. They can go do their thing and I wish them well on their journey.
I didn’t take the attack personally because I am confident enough in knowing who I am, that I give massive value and help transform lives in so many ways. I know the attack wasn’t about me, it was about her own insecurities, judgments and fears.
When people attack you, remember that it is not about you, it is about the attacker and their stuff that they need to work through. They are projecting their own pain and fear onto you and that’s all about their own personal drama.
I want to encourage you to take the haters in stride, and do your best not to let them bother you. Haters just mean that you’re doing something right, which is something to celebrate! 🎉 🎉 🎉
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